Thursday, May 28, 2009

Rational Engagement

"Destroy all enemies before they rise into power"- entourage?

Ones attitude going up against a challenge thy intuition triggers warning of anger/negative energy shold be neutralized and shall go forth from there on with a clear mind set even if hte person or situation had left a scar in the then preparing for a ratonal engagement rather then a confrintation can lesson or preven an ugly outcome. Those who are in control in an engagement have the conrol of the turn out
In control= a rational outcome
Out of control= prolonged unproductive negative impact ( could be salvaged later on) out come.
Compromise your differences with the person you may have conflict with. YOu may have polar opposite views, thought process that does not mean you can not get along, come to agreement or be(come) allies.
Set boundaries with the nemesis let them know what bothers you about them to plant a seed for change and compromise so that all encounters are not intense. Then ask them what it is that may bother them about you all so that conversations and interactions are more at ease.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

work miracles: Plant Seeds of Hope

Be wise in the way you act towards outsiders, make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversations always be full of grace so that you may know how to answer everyone -
Colossians 4:5

+Work miracles through all whom you encounter; be of good influence (imitate the Lords righteous ways) encourage them, grace them with a bright happy smile, pay a compliment, acknowledge/greet them and their lives will in that moment feel brighter and will have planted a seed of hope.
These miracles are also essentials for our personal relationships. It builds a strong bond, and trust...
Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. - Ephesians 4:3
It's not that we are to build unity but keep unity. Unity does not need to be created it simply needs t0 be protected. (From the book "Grace for the Moment" - Max Lucado)

Every person we are introduced to good or bad relationship is for a purpose. We gain experience and wisdom from all people. It is wise not to go through lifes journey alone...