Control over Outcome

Control over outcome
... you can choose like many to chain yourself to your hurt or you can choose like some to put away your hurts before they become hates.
How does God deal with your bitter heart?
He reminds you that what you have is more important than what you don't have
- (He still Moves Stones Max Lucado)

for we also have had the good news proclaimed to us just as they did; but the message they heard was of no value to them because they did not share the faith of those who obeyed
- Hebrews 4:2

Hate like any other test or challenge is a process in which we can either prevent from becoming a disaster or prolonging the trial only to summon upon yourself the worst case scenario at the end. Hate is a secondary feeling. Theres elements that lead up to it: Miss communication, distrust, discouragement... the sooner one recognizes the core of what could become hate the better chance of the fuse to snuff out descolating to normality becoming at ease. Come to terms and learn from that which is upsetting you then let it go.
We are in control of the final out come of the trials we experience.